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NCtanmom
05-23-2003, 10:33 PM
oh man where do i start,today I went to the salon to tan I walked in the owner her hubby and their 14 year old daughter was there,the mom and dad were working cleaning beds and the daughter was hugged up in a chair with a boy,I couldnt beleive these parents let this go on..at their age,,,anyway when my bed was ready I walked back,passing all the doors and there they were in a tanning bed room doing things that they shouldnt have been doing I was so upset...this is awful what would you have done,I will never understand why they let this go on there.outragous

tantoo
05-24-2003, 08:38 AM
If I were you, I would let the management 'parents' know how you felt. I would hope that they would appreciate the constructive criticism from their paying customers. Just think, if they let their own children get away with that kind of behavior when they are there, what else is gotten away with when the owner 'parents' are not??? If they don't make their own kids behave, do they make their employees? If they do not respond in kind to your comments, I would shop elsewhere. That's what this business is all about, CUSTOMER SERVICE!!!

njchica
05-24-2003, 09:09 AM
I would just let them know that you were uncomfortable while you were in their salon seeing some young people doing whatever it was..... try to keep it to how YOU FELT to avoid putting mom and dad on the defensive.

linzlue
05-24-2003, 12:30 PM
your right njchica... let the parents know how you felt. You dont want to say something along the lines of "how could you let that happen" or "what kind of parents are you" or else they will get very defensive. I dont know of anyone that wants to be told they are a bad parent.

Anya1976
05-24-2003, 12:56 PM
OMG... ok if i would have done that at 14 i'd have been locked ina closet. but yea don't put the parents on the defensive that would be the wrong thing to do.

BrOnZeDbOmBsHeLl
05-24-2003, 01:39 PM
eww eww eww that is so wrong and you as a client shouldn't have to be placed in an enviroment where that kind of activity takes place.

Spice
05-24-2003, 01:53 PM
that's disgusting... yuck. i would let them know how i feel but still switch salons... who knows what's going on there.

tantoo
05-24-2003, 03:05 PM
As far as putting 'mom and dad' on the defensive; if a parent (and we have 5) chooses to have their child as an employee, then they have the obligation to treat them as such and to accept from customers any criticisms of their performance while on the job or in the salon without bias. Our employees/children are a DIRECT reflection on us as a business owner and as a parent. If at any point our employees/kids can't handle the responsibility, we will address the situation. Under no circumstance would we jeopardize losing customers because our teenager/employee can't keep their hormones in check in my salon. We agree with articfeva and spice!

njchica
05-25-2003, 10:30 AM
I didn't read anywhere in the post that the 14 year old was WORKING THERE... It said she was just "hanging out." If she was there killing time waiting for her parents, then that's one (inappropriate) thing. If she was supposed to be working, then that's a whole different ball of wax. Either way, it's important that you let the owners know how you felt about the situation.

cyndestan
05-25-2003, 09:30 PM
Well, I agree with you all.. I hate to hear about something like this.. but I'm sure if they let something like that go on, they probably wouldn't care less if some one complained about it!

tanny
05-30-2003, 05:38 PM
YUCK i would have left and and asked for my money back

TravisMT81
05-30-2003, 06:01 PM
what were they kissing or what?? I guess I was so sheltered.

sherlynn 01
06-19-2003, 12:53 AM
i cant belive they would let there child and her boyfriend carry on like that,no telling how that child will trun out.

TanPimp
06-19-2003, 01:30 AM
I think I need to change to this salon!

MaGaLiCiOuS
06-19-2003, 01:38 AM
lol leave it to you to say that!!

palefacegirl
06-19-2003, 05:31 PM
I would voice distress over this to the parents. Hopefully the will take care of the matter without getting offended, if not you should explain to them that it made you uncomfortable and are considering switching salons.
I just remember when I was 14, if I was kissing a guy or whatever I didn't do it around my parents. My 17 year old does not do anyhting like that around me .

lilmountaingrrl
06-19-2003, 11:10 PM
I would think that the managers of a salon would not condone this type of behavior while they were on the clock..... It seems like if they werent worried about their child, that maybe that they would at least worry that it might look bad for their job. It isnt professional to have activity like that going on at a place of business, and im sure that there are regulations against stuff like that going on. I think i would have brought it to the attention of the higher-ups at the salon, not the girl's parents, but the supervisor incharge of them.....

prolineceo
07-03-2003, 01:41 AM
They will learn...in a year or so..when they are grandpa and grandma salon owners

BronzeBodyBoy
04-15-2004, 05:49 AM
That's sick....doing things like that in a tanning bed that YOU could be in next....well it is one of my girlfriend's fantasies....lol...but I would completely sanitize it afterwards....lol....jk



JOSH

Genie
04-15-2004, 12:01 PM
P.D.A. disgusts me. Ugh!

SassyKat
04-15-2004, 01:36 PM
I would find another salon.

Sunderella
04-15-2004, 04:15 PM
I don't think that behavior is appropriate for a business of anty kind....I would have said something....

volboi85
04-16-2004, 11:02 AM
Just tell the owners that you felt uncomfortable with the actions, don't make it sound like its the end of the world, but most definitely let them know you find it unaccaptable

ellebelles
04-18-2004, 02:03 PM
I dont think its duch a big deal.. but being so young im used to all this sex and crap

volboi85
04-18-2004, 03:34 PM
I'm only 19, and I'm sure all of us here enjoy our sinificant other, the problem is, that is a professional environment in public... it is rude to subject others to having to see your love session... I'm used to sex and all that comes with it, but I don't expect to see it at the tanning salon, or wal mart for that matter...

ruthless
04-19-2004, 01:40 AM
Was it naked groping or something? I suppose it all depends on a persons definition of acceptable-but if you do find it unacceptable you shouldn't have to be exposed to it-you can either leave and say nothing, or let them know that you find what they are doing offensive.

Scott
04-19-2004, 11:37 PM
14! well the parents must not mind... they have to know whats going on... thats uncomfortable though...

pinktink
04-20-2004, 11:01 PM
let theme know that this is a place of business that there is no sence in that going on in there salon while other people are there.